[enhancement](default_config) change default value of rpc related (#22149)

configs

Bdbje elect timeout is 30 seconds, so we enlarge thrift_rpc_timeout_ms
and txn_commit_rpc_timeout_ms to 60s.

BTW: enlarge bdbje_lock_timeout_second from 1 to 5.

fe/fe-common/src/main/java/org/apache/doris/common/Config.java

@@ -223,7 +223,7 @@ public class Config extends ConfigBase {
             + "可以适当增大这个值",
             "The lock timeout of bdbje operation, in seconds. "
                     + "If there are many LockTimeoutException in FE WARN log, you can try to increase this value"})
-    public static int bdbje_lock_timeout_second = 1;
+    public static int bdbje_lock_timeout_second = 5;
 
     @ConfField(description = {"BDBJE 主从节点间同步的超时时间，单位为秒。如果出现大量的 ReplicaWriteException，"
             + "可以适当增大这个值",