[feature](load) enable memtable on sink node by default (#30372)

fe/fe-core/src/main/java/org/apache/doris/qe/SessionVariable.java

@@ -1393,7 +1393,7 @@ public class SessionVariable implements Serializable, Writable {
     public boolean truncateCharOrVarcharColumns = false;
 
     @VariableMgr.VarAttr(name = ENABLE_MEMTABLE_ON_SINK_NODE, needForward = true)
-    public boolean enableMemtableOnSinkNode = false;
+    public boolean enableMemtableOnSinkNode = true;
 
     @VariableMgr.VarAttr(name = LOAD_STREAM_PER_NODE)
     public int loadStreamPerNode = 20;