[fix](routine load) should update progress before handle transaction state transform (#39311) (#39526)

pick (#39311)

Update progress maybe throw exception, causing offset has been persisted
on edit log or meta service, but the memory data has not been updated.
It will cause repeated consumption.

fe/fe-core/src/main/java/org/apache/doris/load/routineload/KafkaRoutineLoadJob.java

@@ -298,8 +298,8 @@ public class KafkaRoutineLoadJob extends RoutineLoadJob {
 
     @Override
     protected void updateProgress(RLTaskTxnCommitAttachment attachment) throws UserException {
-        super.updateProgress(attachment);
         updateProgressAndOffsetsCache(attachment);
+        super.updateProgress(attachment);
     }
 
     @Override