[bugfix](index) Fix build index limitations (#24358)

1. skip existed index on column with different id on build index
2. allow build index for CANCELED or FINISHED state

fe/fe-core/src/main/java/org/apache/doris/alter/SchemaChangeHandler.java

@@ -2898,8 +2898,8 @@ public class SchemaChangeHandler extends AlterHandler {
                     && indexChangeJob.getTableId() == tableId
                     && indexChangeJob.getPartitionName().equals(partitionName)
                     && indexChangeJob.hasSameAlterInvertedIndex(isDrop, alterIndexes)
-                    && indexChangeJob.getJobState() != IndexChangeJob.JobState.CANCELLED) {
-                // if JobState is CANCELLED, also allow user to create job again
+                    && !indexChangeJob.isDone()) {
+                // if JobState is done (CANCELLED or FINISHED), also allow user to create job again
                 return true;
             }
         }