update gcc to gcc 10 and support c++17 (#5394)

* update gcc to gcc 10 and support c++17
    update brpc to 0.9.7
    update boost to 1.73
    remove third-party boost 1.54 for mysql

* update cmake version

* ignore jdk version

* remove unused patch

* avoid use SYS_getrandom call

be/src/runtime/user_function_cache.cpp

@@ -19,6 +19,7 @@
 
 #include <boost/algorithm/string/classification.hpp> // boost::is_any_of
 #include <boost/algorithm/string/predicate.hpp>      // boost::algorithm::ends_with
+#include <atomic>
 #include <regex>
 #include <vector>