[fix](memory tracker) Fix lru cache, compaction tracker, add USE_MEM_TRACKER compile (#9661)

1. Fix Lru Cache MemTracker consumption value is negative.
2. Fix compaction Cache MemTracker has no track.
3. Add USE_MEM_TRACKER compile option.
4. Make sure the malloc/free hook is not stopped at any time.

be/src/agent/task_worker_pool.cpp

@@ -1609,6 +1609,8 @@ void TaskWorkerPool::_random_sleep(int second) {
 }
 
 void TaskWorkerPool::_submit_table_compaction_worker_thread_callback() {
+    SCOPED_ATTACH_TASK_THREAD(ThreadContext::TaskType::COMPACTION,
+                              StorageEngine::instance()->compaction_mem_tracker());
     while (_is_work) {
         TAgentTaskRequest agent_task_req;
         TCompactionReq compaction_req;