[chore](build) Use include-what-you-use to optimize includes (PART II) (#18761)

Currently, there are some useless includes in the codebase. We can use a tool named include-what-you-use to optimize these includes. By using a strict include-what-you-use policy, we can get lots of benefits from it.

be/src/vec/exec/vassert_num_rows_node.cpp

@@ -17,11 +17,27 @@
 
 #include "vec/exec/vassert_num_rows_node.h"
 
-#include "gen_cpp/PlanNodes_types.h"
+#include <gen_cpp/PlanNodes_types.h>
+#include <glog/logging.h>
+#include <opentelemetry/nostd/shared_ptr.h>
+
+#include <functional>
+#include <map>
+#include <memory>
+#include <ostream>
+#include <utility>
+#include <vector>
+
 #include "runtime/runtime_state.h"
 #include "util/runtime_profile.h"
+#include "util/telemetry/telemetry.h"
 #include "vec/core/block.h"
 
+namespace doris {
+class DescriptorTbl;
+class ObjectPool;
+} // namespace doris
+
 namespace doris::vectorized {
 
 VAssertNumRowsNode::VAssertNumRowsNode(ObjectPool* pool, const TPlanNode& tnode,