[fix](Nereids): use == instead of id to identity PhysicalHashJoin (#24535)

fe/fe-core/src/main/java/org/apache/doris/nereids/trees/plans/physical/PhysicalHashJoin.java

@@ -209,7 +209,7 @@ public class PhysicalHashJoin<
         if (RuntimeFilterGenerator.DENIED_JOIN_TYPES.contains(getJoinType()) || isMarkJoin()) {
             if (builderNode instanceof PhysicalHashJoin) {
                 PhysicalHashJoin<?, ?> builderJion = (PhysicalHashJoin<?, ?>) builderNode;
-                if (builderJion.id.asInt() == id.asInt()) {
+                if (builderJion == this) {
                     return false;
                 }
             }