We make all MemTrackers shared, in order to show MemTracker real-time consumptions on the web.
As follows:
1. nearly all MemTracker raw ptr -> shared_ptr
2. Use CreateTracker() to create new MemTracker(in order to add itself to its parent)
3. RowBatch & MemPool still use raw ptrs of MemTracker, it's easy to ensure RowBatch & MemPool destructor exec
before MemTracker's destructor. So we don't change these code.
4. MemTracker can use RuntimeProfile's counter to calc consumption. So RuntimeProfile's counter need to be shared
too. We add a shared counter pool to store the shared counter, don't change other counters of RuntimeProfile.
Note that, this PR doesn't change the MemTracker tree structure. So there still have some orphan trackers, e.g. RowBlockV2's MemTracker. If you find some shared MemTrackers are little memory consumption & too time-consuming, you could make them be the orphan, then it's fine to use the raw ptr.
Fix some unittest failed due to glog， this may be we change the ut build dir，and the log path is not exist in new build dir， so we change the log from file to stdout
LSAN detected errors have been fixed by a prior pathch (#3326), but
there are still some ASAN detected errors.
This patch try to fix these errors to make Doris BE more robustness.
And then we can add CI run in LSAN/ASAN mode to detect memory errors
as early as possible.
We can observe the workload of BE, and also it's a way to check
whether there is any problem in BE, like some container increase
too large and lead to OOM.
This patch add the following metrics:
```
Name Description
rowset_count_generated_and_in_use The total count of rowset id generated and in use since BE last start
unused_rowsets_count The total count of unused rowset waiting to be GC
broker_count The total count of brokers in management
data_stream_receiver_count The total count of data stream receivers in management
fragment_endpoint_count The total count of fragment endpoints of data stream in management, should always equal to data_stream_receiver_count
active_scan_context_count The total count of active scan contexts
plan_fragment_count The total count of plan fragments in executing
load_channel_count The total count of load channels in management
result_buffer_block_count The total count of result buffer blocks for queries, each block has a limited queue size (default 1024)
result_block_queue_count The total count of queues for fragments, each queue has a limited size (default 20, by config::max_memory_sink_batch_count)
routine_load_task_count The total count of routine load tasks in executing
small_file_cache_count The total count of cached small files' digest info
stream_load_pipe_count The total count of stream load pipes, each pipe has a limited buffer size (default 1M)
tablet_writer_count The total count of tablet writers
brpc_endpoint_stub_count The total count of brpc endpoints
```
