Pick [Fix](group commit) Fix group commit block queue mem estimate faule
#35314
## Proposed changes
Issue Number: close #xxx
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**Problem:** When `group commit=async_mode` and NULL data is imported
into a `variant` type column, it causes incorrect memory statistics for
group commit backpressure, leading to a stuck issue. **Cause:** In group
commit mode, blocks are first added to a queue in batches using `add
block`, and then blocks are retrieved from the queue using `get block`.
To track memory usage during backpressure, we add the block size to the
memory statistics during `add block` and subtract the block size from
the memory statistics during `get block`. However, for `variant` types,
during the `add block` write to WAL, serialization occurs, which can
merge types (e.g., merging `int` and `bigint` into `bigint`), thereby
changing the block size. This results in a discrepancy between the block
size during `get block` and `add block`, causing memory statistics to
overflow.
**Solution:** Record the block size at the time of `add block` and use
this recorded size during `get block` instead of the actual block size.
This ensures consistency in the memory addition and subtraction.
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## Proposed changes
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## Proposed changes
1. return error when bloom filter allocate memory failed
2. return error when deserialize a block， it may need a lot of memory.
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Co-authored-by: yiguolei <yiguolei@gmail.com>
ubsan hints:
```c++
/root/doris/be/src/olap/hll.h:93:29: runtime error: load of value 3078029312, which is not a valid value for type 'HllDataType'
/root/doris/be/src/olap/hll.h:94:23: runtime error: load of value 3078029312, which is not a valid value for type 'HllDataType'
/root/doris/be/src/runtime/descriptors.h:439:38: runtime error: load of value 118, which is not a valid value for type 'bool'
/root/doris/be/src/vec/exec/vjdbc_connector.cpp:61:50: runtime error: load of value 35, which is not a valid value for type 'bool'
```
1. remove phmap for padding rows
2. add SimpleFieldVisitorToScarlarType for short circuit type deducing
3. correct type coercion for conflict types bettween integers
4. improve nullable column performance
5. remove shared_ptr dependancy for DataType use TypeIndex instead
6. Optimization by caching the order of fields (which is almost always the same)
and a quick check to match the next expected field, instead of searching the hash table.
benchmark:
In clickbench data, load performance:
12m36.799s ->7m10.934s about 43% latency reduce
In variant_p2/performance.groovy:
3min44s20 -> 1min15s80 about 66% latency reducy
* [DNM](decimal) use new way for decimal arithmetic precision promotion
* [improvement](decimal) [DNM](decimal) use new way for decimal arithmetic precision promotion
1. [DNM](decimal) use new way for decimal arithmetic precision promotion
2. throw exception if it overflows for decimal arithmetics
3. throw exception if it overflows when casting among number types
* fix compile error of gcc
* improvement
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Co-authored-by: morrySnow <morrysnow@126.com>
