Currently, there are some useless includes in the codebase. We can use a tool named include-what-you-use to optimize these includes. By using a strict include-what-you-use policy, we can get lots of benefits from it.
This PR is to make sharing hash table for broadcast more robust:
Add a session variable to enable/disable this function.
Do not block the hash join node's close function.
Use shared pointer to share hash table and runtime filter in broadcast join nodes.
The Hash join node that doesn't need to build the hash table will close the right child without reading any data(the child will close the corresponding sender).
