### What problem does this PR solve?
backport:https://github.com/apache/doris/pull/48537
Issue Number: close #xxx
Related PR: #xxx
Problem Summary:
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### What problem does this PR solve?
Problem Summary:
the partition_sorts is unique_ptr，could release after destroy.
and when some extreme case like cancel, if source reset the sorter
early, the sink operator will coredump still use it.
```
*** Query id: 80819fcc223e4a45-b46155de6e0c4eee ***
*** is nereids: 1 ***
*** tablet id: 0 ***
*** Aborted at 1736352810 (unix time) try "date -d @1736352810" if you are using GNU date ***
*** Current BE git commitID: 08683cbaf5 ***
*** SIGSEGV address not mapped to object (@0x38) received by PID 8736 (TID 11549 OR 0x7f8dd0922640) from PID 56; stack trace: ***
0# doris::signal::(anonymous namespace)::FailureSignalHandler(int, siginfo_t*, void*) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/common/signal_handler.h:421
1# PosixSignals::chained_handler(int, siginfo*, void*) [clone .part.0] in /usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so
2# JVM_handle_linux_signal in /usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so
3# 0x00007F92019CA520 in /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6
4# auto doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::_refresh_hash_table(doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkLocalState&)::{lambda(auto:1&&)#1}::operator(), HashTableNoState>, DefaultHash, HashTableGrower<10ul>, Allocator > >&>(doris::vectorized::MethodSerialized, HashTableNoState>, DefaultHash, HashTableGrower<10ul>, Allocator > >&) const at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:213
5# doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::_finalize_probe(doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkLocalState&) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:184
6# doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::sink(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:98
7# doris::pipeline::PipelineTask::execute(bool*) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/pipeline_task.cpp:387
8# doris::pipeline::TaskScheduler::_do_work(unsigned long) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/task_scheduler.cpp:138
9# doris::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
10# doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/util/thread.cpp:499
11# start_thread at ./nptl/pthread_create.c:442
12# 0x00007F9201AAE850 at ../sysdeps/unix/sysv/linux/x86_64/clone3.S:83
```
Introduced by #45207.
For a query plan,
```
set sink operator -- -|
|-> set source operator
set probe operator --|
```
If `set source operators` are finished (due to limit reached), all
upstream operators could be finished and waken up at the same time.
However, some states are initialized in `set sink operator`. So if `set
probe operator` executes before `set sink operator` initialization, it
will incur an invalid address access.
*** Query id: cebb723bbda64249-9ab8c9e7aa72c540 *** *** is nereids: 1
***
*** tablet id: 0 ***
*** Aborted at 1736092087 (unix time) try "date -d @1736092087" if you
are using GNU date ***
*** Current BE git commitID: 26d68d778a ***
*** SIGSEGV address not mapped to object (@0xf8) received by PID 23579
(TID 26524 OR 0x7f84d4240640) from PID 248; stack trace: *** 0#
doris::signal::(anonymous namespace)::FailureSignalHandler(int,
siginfo_t*, void*) at
/home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/common/signal_handler.h:421
1# PosixSignals::chained_handler(int, siginfo*, void*) [clone .part.0]
in /usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so 2#
JVM_handle_linux_signal in
/usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so
3# 0x00007F88F4063520 in /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6
4#
doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::_finalize_probe(doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkLocalState&)
at
/home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:183
5# doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::sink(doris::RuntimeState*,
doris::vectorized::Block*, bool) at
/home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:99
6# doris::pipeline::PipelineTask::execute(bool*) at
/home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/pipeline/pipeline_task.cpp:383
7# doris::pipeline::TaskScheduler::_do_work(int) at
/home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/pipeline/task_scheduler.cpp:138
8# doris::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread() in
/mnt/hdd01/ci/master-deploy/be/lib/doris_be
9# doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) at
/home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/util/thread.cpp:499 10#
start_thread at ./nptl/pthread_create.c:442
11# 0x00007F88F4147850 at ../sysdeps/unix/sysv/linux/x86_64/clone3.S:83
avoid ignore rf multiple times
When an instance is wake_up_by_downstream, it will destroy the logic of
`first closing the instance that should build hash table and then
closing other instances`, instance that should build hash table during
the process of inserting data into rf, this instance may find that rf is
ignored, causing dcheck to fail.
```cpp
F20241121 12:01:02.245405 9832 runtime_filter.cpp:395] Check failed: !is_ignored()
3# raise at ../sysdeps/posix/raise.c:27
4# abort at ./stdlib/abort.c:81
5# 0x00005603CFDF778D in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
6# 0x00005603CFDE9DCA in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
7# google::LogMessage::SendToLog() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
8# google::LogMessage::Flush() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
9# google::LogMessageFatal::~LogMessageFatal() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
10# doris::RuntimePredicateWrapper::insert_fixed_len(COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::immutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> const&, unsigned long) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:395
11# doris::RuntimePredicateWrapper::insert_batch(COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::immutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> const&, unsigned long) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:431
12# doris::IRuntimeFilter::insert_batch(COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::immutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn>, unsigned long) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:992
13# doris::VRuntimeFilterSlots::insert(doris::vectorized::Block const*) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter_slots.h:146
14# doris::pipeline::HashJoinBuildSinkLocalState::close(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::Status) in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
15# doris::pipeline::DataSinkOperatorXBase::close(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::Status) in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
16# doris::pipeline::PipelineTask::close(doris::Status) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/pipeline_task.cpp:487
```
### What problem does this PR solve?
Issue Number: close #xxx
Related PR: #xxx
Problem Summary:
### Release note
None
### Check List (For Author)
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- Behavior changed:
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### What problem does this PR solve?
If enable_verbose_profile is false, update_rpc_time will not be called,
and RPC count, max, and min statistics will not be recorded.
```
- RpcCount: 0
- RpcMaxTime: 0ns
- RpcMinTime: 0ns
- RpcSumTime: 0ns
```
Co-authored-by: Mryange <yanxuecheng@selectdb.com>
