In pr #8476, all memory usage of a process is recorded in the process mem tracker,
and all memory usage of a query is recorded in the query mem tracker,
and it is still necessary to manually call `transfer to` to track the cached memory size.
We hope to separate out more detailed memory usage based on Hook TCMalloc new/delete + TLS mem tracker.
In this pr, the more detailed mem tracker is switched to TLS, which automatically and accurately
counts more detailed memory usage than before.
Early Design Documentation: https://shimo.im/docs/DT6JXDRkdTvdyV3G
Implement a new way of memory statistics based on TCMalloc New/Delete Hook,
MemTracker and TLS, and it is expected that all memory new/delete/malloc/free
of the BE process can be counted.
