There are some issues with the compile flag `-Wno-unused-but-set-variable` for clang.
1. `-Wno-unused-but-set-variable` should be set when building source by clang-15 on Linux. (#13000#13016)
2. On macOS Monterey, Apple Clang 13 may treat it as a unknown warning option and the compilation process may interrupt.
This PR introduces a better way to make this compile flag more portable.
1. Test whether the compiler recognizes this flag.
2. Add this flag if the compiler recognizes it.
# Proposed changes
This PR fixed lots of issues when building from source on macOS with Apple M1 chip.
## ATTENTION
The job for supporting macOS with Apple M1 chip is too big and there are lots of unresolved issues during runtime:
1. Some errors with memory tracker occur when BE (RELEASE) starts.
2. Some UT cases fail.
...
Temporarily, the following changes are made on macOS to start BE successfully.
1. Disable memory tracker.
2. Use tcmalloc instead of jemalloc.
This PR kicks off the job. Guys who are interested in this job can continue to fix these runtime issues.
## Use case
```shell
./build.sh -j 8 --be --clean
cd output/be/bin
ulimit -n 60000
./start_be.sh --daemon
```
## Something else
It takes around _**10+**_ minutes to build BE (with prebuilt third-parties) on macOS with M1 chip. We will improve the development experience on macOS greatly when we finish the adaptation job.
1. solved the previous delayed unit test file size is too large (1.7G+) and the unit test link time is too long problem problems
2. Unify all unit tests into one file to significantly reduce unit test execution time to less than 3 mins
3. temporarily disable stream_load_test.cpp, metrics_action_test.cpp, load_channel_mgr_test.cpp because it will re-implement part of the code and affect other tests
