LSAN detected errors have been fixed by a prior pathch (#3326), but
there are still some ASAN detected errors.
This patch try to fix these errors to make Doris BE more robustness.
And then we can add CI run in LSAN/ASAN mode to detect memory errors
as early as possible.
We can observe the workload of BE, and also it's a way to check
whether there is any problem in BE, like some container increase
too large and lead to OOM.
This patch add the following metrics:
```
Name Description
rowset_count_generated_and_in_use The total count of rowset id generated and in use since BE last start
unused_rowsets_count The total count of unused rowset waiting to be GC
broker_count The total count of brokers in management
data_stream_receiver_count The total count of data stream receivers in management
fragment_endpoint_count The total count of fragment endpoints of data stream in management, should always equal to data_stream_receiver_count
active_scan_context_count The total count of active scan contexts
plan_fragment_count The total count of plan fragments in executing
load_channel_count The total count of load channels in management
result_buffer_block_count The total count of result buffer blocks for queries, each block has a limited queue size (default 1024)
result_block_queue_count The total count of queues for fragments, each queue has a limited size (default 20, by config::max_memory_sink_batch_count)
routine_load_task_count The total count of routine load tasks in executing
small_file_cache_count The total count of cached small files' digest info
stream_load_pipe_count The total count of stream load pipes, each pipe has a limited buffer size (default 1M)
tablet_writer_count The total count of tablet writers
brpc_endpoint_stub_count The total count of brpc endpoints
```
