avoid ignore rf multiple times
When an instance is wake_up_by_downstream, it will destroy the logic of
`first closing the instance that should build hash table and then
closing other instances`, instance that should build hash table during
the process of inserting data into rf, this instance may find that rf is
ignored, causing dcheck to fail.
```cpp
F20241121 12:01:02.245405 9832 runtime_filter.cpp:395] Check failed: !is_ignored()
3# raise at ../sysdeps/posix/raise.c:27
4# abort at ./stdlib/abort.c:81
5# 0x00005603CFDF778D in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
6# 0x00005603CFDE9DCA in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
7# google::LogMessage::SendToLog() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
8# google::LogMessage::Flush() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
9# google::LogMessageFatal::~LogMessageFatal() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
10# doris::RuntimePredicateWrapper::insert_fixed_len(COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::immutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> const&, unsigned long) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:395
11# doris::RuntimePredicateWrapper::insert_batch(COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::immutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> const&, unsigned long) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:431
12# doris::IRuntimeFilter::insert_batch(COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::immutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn>, unsigned long) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:992
13# doris::VRuntimeFilterSlots::insert(doris::vectorized::Block const*) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter_slots.h:146
14# doris::pipeline::HashJoinBuildSinkLocalState::close(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::Status) in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
15# doris::pipeline::DataSinkOperatorXBase::close(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::Status) in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
16# doris::pipeline::PipelineTask::close(doris::Status) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/pipeline_task.cpp:487
```
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