…ck when PrimitiveType to PColumnType (#39985)
use exception to replace dcheck when PrimitiveType to PColumnType
```cpp
*** SIGABRT unknown detail explain (@0x11d3f) received by PID 73023 (TID 74292 OR 0x7fd758225640) from PID 73023; stack trace: ***
0# doris::signal::(anonymous namespace)::FailureSignalHandler(int, siginfo_t*, void*) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/common/signal_handler.h:421
1# 0x00007FDDBE6B9520 in /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6
2# pthread_kill at ./nptl/pthread_kill.c:89
3# raise at ../sysdeps/posix/raise.c:27
4# abort at ./stdlib/abort.c:81
5# 0x000056123F81A94D in /root/output/be/lib/doris_be
6# 0x000056123F80CF8A in /root/output/be/lib/doris_be
7# google::LogMessage::SendToLog() in /root/output/be/lib/doris_be
8# google::LogMessage::Flush() in /root/output/be/lib/doris_be
9# google::LogMessageFatal::~LogMessageFatal() in /root/output/be/lib/doris_be
10# doris::to_proto(doris::PrimitiveType) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:114
11# doris::IRuntimeFilter::push_to_remote(doris::TNetworkAddress const*) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:1143
12# doris::IRuntimeFilter::publish(bool)::$_0::operator()(doris::IRuntimeFilter*) const at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:959
13# doris::IRuntimeFilter::publish(bool)::$_2::operator()() const at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:983
14# doris::IRuntimeFilter::publish(bool) at /home/zcp/repo_center/doris_master/doris/be/src/exprs/runtime_filter.cpp:997
```
## Proposed changes
pick from #39985
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