[fix](fe) LIST partition table support modify default bucket num (#39688)
## Proposed changes
bp #39696
Issue Number: close #39684
```sql
CREATE TABLE `test1` (
`id1` VARCHAR(255) NULL COMMENT 'id1',
`id2` VARCHAR(255) NULL COMMENT 'id2',
`event_time` VARCHAR(255) NULL COMMENT '事件时间',
`event_date` VARCHAR(255) NULL COMMENT '事件日期',
`event_ts` VARCHAR(256) NULL COMMENT '事件发生时间戳(毫秒)',
`dt` VARCHAR(255) NOT NULL COMMENT '日期分区',
`hr` VARCHAR(255) NOT NULL COMMENT '小时分区'
) ENGINE = OLAP DUPLICATE KEY(`id1`) COMMENT 'xxx' PARTITION BY LIST(`dt`, `hr`) (
PARTITION p2024082021 VALUES IN (("2024-08-20", "21"))
) DISTRIBUTED BY HASH(`dt`, `hr`) BUCKETS 2 PROPERTIES (
"replication_allocation" = "tag.location.default: 1",
"min_load_replica_num" = "-1",
"is_being_synced" = "false",
"storage_medium" = "hdd",
"storage_format" = "V2",
"inverted_index_storage_format" = "V1",
"light_schema_change" = "true",
"disable_auto_compaction" = "false",
"enable_single_replica_compaction" = "false",
"group_commit_interval_ms" = "10000",
"group_commit_data_bytes" = "134217728"
);
```
1. 修改前表已有分区的bucket num为2

2. 修改List分区表bucket num(从2 -> 4)

3. 修改List分区后,添加的新分区bucket num为4

Co-authored-by: tongyang.han <tongyang.han@jiduauto.com>