1. Fix the memory leak. When the load task is canceled, the `IndexChannel` and `NodeChannel` mem trackers cannot be destructed in time.
2. Fix Load task being frequently canceled by oom and inaccurate `LoadChannel` mem tracker limit, and rewrite the variable name of `mem limit` in `LoadChannel`.
3. Fix core dump, when logout task mem tracker, phmap erase fails, resulting in repeated logout of the same tracker.
4. Fix the deadlock, when add_child_tracker mem limit exceeds, calling log_usage causes `_child_trackers_lock` deadlock.
5. Fix frequent log printing when thread mem tracker limit exceeds, which will affect readability and performance.
6. Optimize some details of mem tracker display.
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