[branch-2.1](routine-load) optimize out of range error message (#37391)
## Proposed changes
pick #36450
before
```
ErrorReason{code=errCode = 105, msg='be 10002 abort task, task id: d846f3d3-7c9e-44a7-bee0-3eff8cd11c6f job id: 11310 with reason: [INTERNAL_ERROR]Offset out of range,
0# doris::Status doris::Status::Error<6, true>(std::basic_string_view<char, std::char_traits<char> >) at /mnt/disk1/laihui/doris/be/src/common/status.h:422
1# doris::Status doris::Status::InternalError<true>(std::basic_string_view<char, std::char_traits<char> >) at /mnt/disk1/laihui/doris/be/src/common/status.h:468
2# doris::KafkaDataConsumer::group_consume(doris::BlockingQueue<RdKafka::Message*>*, long) at /mnt/disk1/laihui/doris/be/src/runtime/routine_load/data_consumer.cpp:226
3# doris::KafkaDataConsumerGroup::actual_consume(std::shared_ptr<doris::DataConsumer>, doris::BlockingQueue<RdKafka::Message*>*, long, std::function<void (doris::Status const&)>) at /mnt/disk1/laihui/doris/be/src/runtime/routine_load/data_consumer_group.cpp:200
4# void std::__invoke_impl<void, void (doris::KafkaDataConsumerGroup::*&)(std::shared_ptr<doris::DataConsumer>, doris::BlockingQueue<RdKafka::Message*>*, long, std::function<void (doris::Status const&)>), doris::KafkaDataConsumerGroup*&, std::shared_ptr<doris::DataConsumer>&, doris::BlockingQueue<RdKafka::Message*>*&, long&, doris::KafkaDataConsumerGroup::start_all(std::shared_ptr<doris::StreamLoadContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::io::KafkaConsumerPipe>)::$_0&>(std::__invoke_memfun_deref, void (doris::KafkaDataConsumerGroup::*&)(std::shared_ptr<doris::DataConsumer>, doris::BlockingQueue<RdKafka::Message*>*, long, std::function<void (doris::Status const&)>), doris::KafkaDataConsumerGroup*&, std::shared_ptr<doris::DataConsumer>&, doris::BlockingQueue<RdKafka::Message*>*&, long&, doris::KafkaDataConsumerGroup::start_all(std::shared_ptr<doris::StreamLoadContext>, std::shared_ptr<doris::io::KafkaConsumerPipe>)::$_0&) at /mnt/disk1/laihui/build/ldb_toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/invoke.h:74
...
```
now
```
ErrorReason{code=errCode = 105, msg='be 10002 abort task, task id: 3ba0c0f4-d13c-4dfa-90ce-3df922fd9340 job id: 11310 with reason: [INTERNAL_ERROR]Offset out of range, consume partition 0, consume offset 100, the offset used by job does not exist in kafka, please check the offset, using the Alter ROUTINE LOAD command to modify it, and resume the job'}
```
## Proposed changes
Issue Number: close #xxx
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