### What problem does this PR solve?
when nereids cast invalid date literal to date like type, it will throws
exceptions:
```
select '' = cast('2020-10-20' as date);
(1105, 'errCode = 2, detailMessage = date/datetime literal [] is invalid')
```
But old planner will not throw exceptions, so let neredis don't throw
exceptions too.
This PR is pick code from: #40202
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