[fix](compaction) catch exception in compaction (#40900) (#40930)
## Proposed changes
pick #40900
```
terminate called after throwing an instance of 'doris::Exception'
{color:red} what(): [E6] Too large string size.{color}
0# doris::Exception::Exception(int, std::basic_string_view<char, std::char_traits<char> > const&) at /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/unique_ptr.h:173
1# doris::vectorized::read_string_binary(std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> >&, doris::vectorized::BufferReadable&, unsigned long) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/io/io_helper.h:177
2# doris::vectorized::IAggregateFunctionHelper<doris::vectorized::AggregateFunctionNullUnaryInline<doris::vectorized::AggregateFunctionGroupConcat<doris::vectorized::AggregateFunctionGroupConcatImplStr>, true> >::deserialize_and_merge_from_column_range(char*, doris::vectorized::IColumn const&, unsigned long, unsigned long, doris::vectorized::Arena*) const at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/aggregate_functions/aggregate_function.h:0
3# doris::vectorized::IAggregateFunctionHelper<doris::vectorized::AggregateStateUnion>::add_batch_range(unsigned long, unsigned long, char*, doris::vectorized::IColumn const**, doris::vectorized::Arena*, bool) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/aggregate_functions/aggregate_function.h:0
4# doris::vectorized::VerticalBlockReader::_update_agg_value(std::vector<COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::mutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn>, std::allocator<COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::mutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> > >&, int, int, bool) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/olap/vertical_block_reader.cpp:326
5# doris::vectorized::VerticalBlockReader::_update_agg_data(std::vector<COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::mutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn>, std::allocator<COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::mutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> > >&) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/olap/vertical_block_reader.cpp:308
6# doris::vectorized::VerticalBlockReader::_agg_key_next_block(doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/olap/vertical_block_reader.cpp:0
7# doris::vectorized::VerticalBlockReader::next_block_with_aggregation(doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/common/status.h:491
8# doris::Merger::vertical_compact_one_group(std::shared_ptr<doris::Tablet>, doris::ReaderType, std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, bool, std::vector<unsigned int, std::allocator<unsigned int> > const&, doris::vectorized::RowSourcesBuffer*, std::vector<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetReader>, std::allocator<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetReader> > > const&, doris::RowsetWriter*, long, doris::Merger::Statistics*, std::vector<unsigned int, std::allocator<unsigned int> >, long, doris::CompactionSampleInfo*) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/merger.cpp:0
9# doris::Merger::vertical_merge_rowsets(std::shared_ptr<doris::Tablet>, doris::ReaderType, std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, std::vector<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetReader>, std::allocator<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetReader> > > const&, doris::RowsetWriter*, long, long, doris::Merger::Statistics*) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/merger.cpp:445
10# doris::Compaction::do_compaction_impl(long) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/compaction.cpp:385
11# doris::Compaction::do_compaction(long) at /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/shared_ptr_base.h:1291
12# doris::CumulativeCompaction::execute_compact_impl() at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/common/status.h:491
13# doris::Compaction::execute_compact() at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/common/status.h:491
14# doris::Tablet::execute_compaction(doris::Compaction&) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/common/status.h:491
15# std::_Function_handler<void (), doris::StorageEngine::_submit_compaction_task(std::shared_ptr<doris::Tablet>, doris::CompactionType, bool)::$_0>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/olap_server.cpp:1018
16# doris::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread() at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/util/threadpool.cpp:0
17# doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) at /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../usr/include/pthread.h:562
18# ?
19# ?
*** Query id: 0-0 ***
*** is nereids: 0 ***
*** tablet id: 38266341 ***
*** Aborted at 1726615633 (unix time) try "date -d @1726615633" if you are using GNU date ***
*** Current BE git commitID: db06c678a3 ***
*** SIGABRT unknown detail explain (@0x26af02) received by PID 2535170 (TID 2536168 OR 0x7f48c81cd640) from PID 2535170; stack trace: ***
0# doris::signal::(anonymous namespace)::FailureSignalHandler(int, siginfo_t*, void*) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/common/signal_handler.h:421
1# 0x00007F4AB18F8520 in /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6
2# pthread_kill at ./nptl/pthread_kill.c:89
3# raise at ../sysdeps/posix/raise.c:27
4# abort at ./stdlib/abort.c:81
5# __gnu_cxx::__verbose_terminate_handler() [clone .cold] at ../../../../libstdc++-v3/libsupc++/vterminate.cc:75
6# __cxxabiv1::__terminate(void (*)()) at ../../../../libstdc++-v3/libsupc++/eh_terminate.cc:48
7# 0x000055C401EF7811 in /mnt/disk1/STRESS_ENV/be/lib/doris_be
8# 0x000055C401EF7964 in /mnt/disk1/STRESS_ENV/be/lib/doris_be
9# doris::vectorized::read_string_binary(std::__cxx11::basic_string<char, std::char_traits<char>, std::allocator<char> >&, doris::vectorized::BufferReadable&, unsigned long) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/io/io_helper.h:180
10# doris::vectorized::IAggregateFunctionHelper<doris::vectorized::AggregateFunctionNullUnaryInline<doris::vectorized::AggregateFunctionGroupConcat<doris::vectorized::AggregateFunctionGroupConcatImplStr>, true> >::deserialize_and_merge_from_column_range(char*, doris::vectorized::IColumn const&, unsigned long, unsigned long, doris::vectorized::Arena*) const in /mnt/disk1/STRESS_ENV/be/lib/doris_be
11# doris::vectorized::IAggregateFunctionHelper<doris::vectorized::AggregateStateUnion>::add_batch_range(unsigned long, unsigned long, char*, doris::vectorized::IColumn const**, doris::vectorized::Arena*, bool) in /mnt/disk1/STRESS_ENV/be/lib/doris_be
12# doris::vectorized::VerticalBlockReader::_update_agg_value(std::vector<COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::mutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn>, std::allocator<COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::mutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> > >&, int, int, bool) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/olap/vertical_block_reader.cpp:326
13# doris::vectorized::VerticalBlockReader::_update_agg_data(std::vector<COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::mutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn>, std::allocator<COW<doris::vectorized::IColumn>::mutable_ptr<doris::vectorized::IColumn> > >&) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/olap/vertical_block_reader.cpp:308
14# doris::vectorized::VerticalBlockReader::_agg_key_next_block(doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) in /mnt/disk1/STRESS_ENV/be/lib/doris_be
15# doris::vectorized::VerticalBlockReader::next_block_with_aggregation(doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/vec/olap/vertical_block_reader.cpp:58
16# doris::Merger::vertical_compact_one_group(std::shared_ptr<doris::Tablet>, doris::ReaderType, std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, bool, std::vector<unsigned int, std::allocator<unsigned int> > const&, doris::vectorized::RowSourcesBuffer*, std::vector<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetReader>, std::allocator<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetReader> > > const&, doris::RowsetWriter*, long, doris::Merger::Statistics*, std::vector<unsigned int, std::allocator<unsigned int> >, long, doris::CompactionSampleInfo*) in /mnt/disk1/STRESS_ENV/be/lib/doris_be
17# doris::Merger::vertical_merge_rowsets(std::shared_ptr<doris::Tablet>, doris::ReaderType, std::shared_ptr<doris::TabletSchema>, std::vector<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetReader>, std::allocator<std::shared_ptr<doris::RowsetReader> > > const&, doris::RowsetWriter*, long, long, doris::Merger::Statistics*) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/merger.cpp:445
18# doris::Compaction::do_compaction_impl(long) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/compaction.cpp:385
19# doris::Compaction::do_compaction(long) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/compaction.cpp:136
20# doris::CumulativeCompaction::execute_compact_impl() at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/cumulative_compaction.cpp:79
21# doris::Compaction::execute_compact() at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/compaction.cpp:118
22# doris::Tablet::execute_compaction(doris::Compaction&) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/olap/tablet.cpp:2067
23# std::_Function_handler<void (), doris::StorageEngine::_submit_compaction_task(std::shared_ptr<doris::Tablet>, doris::CompactionType, bool)::$_0>::_M_invoke(std::_Any_data const&) at /var/local/ldb-toolchain/bin/../lib/gcc/x86_64-linux-gnu/11/../../../../include/c++/11/bits/std_function.h:291
24# doris::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread() in /mnt/disk1/STRESS_ENV/be/lib/doris_be
25# doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) at /root/doris_branch-2.1/doris/be/src/util/thread.cpp:499
26# start_thread at ./nptl/pthread_create.c:442
27# 0x00007F4AB19DC850 at ../sysdeps/unix/sysv/linux/x86_64/clone3.S:83
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## Proposed changes
Issue Number: close #xxx
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