When the query queue does not contain a complete packet
(i.e. modutil_get_next_MySQL_packet return NULL), an informative dump of
how many bytes and what is stored is logged.
By aborting the process if memory runs out when a buffer needs to be made
contiguous, we rule out other, more subtle, errors. Failing as soon as a
possible when memory allocation fails gives better error messages.
Single spot where an existing hint ptr was overwritten. Removed gwbuf_add_hint()
because it was adding hints at the opposite end compared to functions in hint.h.
Added hint_splice() to replace.
The GWBUF shared buffer and its data is now allocated in one
chunk so that the data directly follows the shared buffer.
That way, creating a GWBUF will involve 2 and not 3 calls to
malloc and freeing one will involve 2 and not 3 calls to free.
