session.c: Replaced free(session->router_sesision) with call to freeSession callback
users.c: Removed reference to uninitialized variable.
router.h: Added freeSession callback to function block.
mysql_backend.c: try to ensure that client dcb is still listening in epoll_wait when writing reply to it.
mysql_common.c: assert debug build is mysql_protocol_init is called with dcb == NULL
readconnroute.c, readwritesplit.c, debugcli.c and testroute.c : Added freeSession to function block and an inmplementation of it.
reworked the reference count mechanism on the session. Introduced a
FREE state for the session and alter the session destruction flow so
that we only remove the session when all the DCB's have singled they
have finished processing events for the DCB rather than when the first
thread decides to clsoe the DCB.
