dcb.c:dcb_write accept also dcb state DCB_STATE_NOPOLLING since it only means that dcb has been removed from epoll set but it is still possible to write to it.
Bug #384http://bugs.skysql.com/show_bug.cgi?id=384
session.h:added new state for SESSION, SESSION_STATE_ROUTER_READY which follows SESSION_STATE_READY. The difference is that ROUTER_READY is set only after router session is successfully created while READY means that session still lacks router.
session.c:set SESSION_STATE_ROUTER_READY when router is created.
mysql_backend.c:gw_read_backend_event, added SESSION_STATE_ROUTER_READY check before router session is closed. Changed chec kso that it doesn't block in infinite loop (although it shouldn't be possible anyway).
mysql_backend.c:gw_error_backend_event, added similar check before session is closed.
reworked the reference count mechanism on the session. Introduced a
FREE state for the session and alter the session destruction flow so
that we only remove the session when all the DCB's have singled they
have finished processing events for the DCB rather than when the first
thread decides to clsoe the DCB.
