Fixed string truncation warnings by reducing max parameter lengths by one
where applicable. The binlogrouter filename lengths are slightly different
so using memcpy to work around the warnings is an adequate "solution"
until the root of the problem is solved.
Removed unnecessary CMake policy settings from qc_sqlite. Adding a
self-dependency on the source file of an external project has no effect
and only caused warnings to be logged.
The internal header directory conflicted with in-source builds causing a
build failure. This is fixed by renaming the internal header directory to
something other than maxscale.
The renaming pointed out a few problems in a couple of source files that
appeared to include internal headers when the headers were in fact public
headers.
Fixed maxctrl in-source builds by making the copying of the sources
optional.
