The internal header directory conflicted with in-source builds causing a
build failure. This is fixed by renaming the internal header directory to
something other than maxscale.
The renaming pointed out a few problems in a couple of source files that
appeared to include internal headers when the headers were in fact public
headers.
Fixed maxctrl in-source builds by making the copying of the sources
optional.
Cleaned up the MaxScale version of the mysql.h header by removing all
unused includes. This revealed a large amount of dependencies on these
removed includes in other files which needed to be fixed.
Also sorted all includes in changed files by type and alphabetical
order. Removed explicit revision history from modified files.
