Relaced router_options with configuration parameters in the createInstance
router entry point. The same needs to be done for the filter API as barely
any filters use the feature.
Some routers (binlogrouter) still support router_options but using it is
deprecated. This had to be done as their use wasn't deprecated in 2.2.
The creation of the EOF packet is not needed as the last packet of a
result set is always guaranteed to be of the correct type. This also
allows non-resultsets to be correctly processed as the internal packet
number will be at 0 when the last result arrives.
Cleaned up some of the function names and changed the signatures to be
better suited for their use-cases.
Use angle bracket includes, combine some of the more unwieldly
conditionals into functions, added more comments.
