This is the first step to taking the Backend class into use. It is now
used in rwsplit_select_backends.cc and readwritesplit.hh. The module is
not yet functional and doesn't even compile.
Added some helper functions to the Backend class to get easier access to
the server referenced by the SERVER_REF and to check the state of the
backend.
The states are now internal to the Backend class. This simplifies the use
of the class by moving the burder of state tracking to the class
itself.
Refactored the way the schemarouter uses the Backend class.
Also fixed a memory leak in the schemarouter when `ignore_databases_regex`
was used..
Using the same implementation of the Backend and SessionCommand classes in
both schemarouter and readwritesplit will prevent duplication of code.
This commit only splits the generic parts of the class to a Backend class
which the schemarouter then extends. The session commands for both routers
are similar so they require no special handling.
