The polling mechanism can now optionally be used for managing
the lifetime of an object placed into the poll set.
If a MXS_POLL_DATA has a non-null 'free', then the reference count
of the data will be increased before calling the handler and
decreased after. In that case, if the reference count reaches 0,
the free function will be called.
Note that the reference counts of *all* MXS_POLL_DATAs returned
by 'epoll_wait' will be increased before the events are delivered
to the handlers individually for each MXS_POLL_DATA, and then once
all events have been delivered, the reference count of each
MXS_POLL_DATA will be decreased.
This ensure that if there are interdependencies between different
MXS_POLL_DATAs returned by one call to 'epoll_wait', the case that
an MXS_POLL_DATA is deleted before its events have been delivered
can be avoided by using the reference count for lifetime management.
In subsequent commits, the reference count will be taken into use
in the lifetime management of DCBs.
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