### What problem does this PR solve?
Related PR: https://github.com/apache/doris/pull/22133
Problem Summary:
https://github.com/apache/doris/pull/22133 forbid doing partial update
during schema change on BE, but this may failed to work when some of
replicas finished alter process on BE and some of them don't. This PR
forbids partial update during schema change on FE to avoid this
situation.
### Release note
```
*** Query id: 80819fcc223e4a45-b46155de6e0c4eee ***
*** is nereids: 1 ***
*** tablet id: 0 ***
*** Aborted at 1736352810 (unix time) try "date -d @1736352810" if you are using GNU date ***
*** Current BE git commitID: 08683cbaf5 ***
*** SIGSEGV address not mapped to object (@0x38) received by PID 8736 (TID 11549 OR 0x7f8dd0922640) from PID 56; stack trace: ***
0# doris::signal::(anonymous namespace)::FailureSignalHandler(int, siginfo_t*, void*) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/common/signal_handler.h:421
1# PosixSignals::chained_handler(int, siginfo*, void*) [clone .part.0] in /usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so
2# JVM_handle_linux_signal in /usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so
3# 0x00007F92019CA520 in /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6
4# auto doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::_refresh_hash_table(doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkLocalState&)::{lambda(auto:1&&)#1}::operator(), HashTableNoState>, DefaultHash, HashTableGrower<10ul>, Allocator > >&>(doris::vectorized::MethodSerialized, HashTableNoState>, DefaultHash, HashTableGrower<10ul>, Allocator > >&) const at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:213
5# doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::_finalize_probe(doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkLocalState&) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:184
6# doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::sink(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:98
7# doris::pipeline::PipelineTask::execute(bool*) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/pipeline_task.cpp:387
8# doris::pipeline::TaskScheduler::_do_work(unsigned long) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/task_scheduler.cpp:138
9# doris::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
10# doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/util/thread.cpp:499
11# start_thread at ./nptl/pthread_create.c:442
12# 0x00007F9201AAE850 at ../sysdeps/unix/sysv/linux/x86_64/clone3.S:83
```
### What problem does this PR solve?
the problem only exists in the old optimizer
```
mysql> CREATE TABLE t (
-> `k1` int NULL,
-> `k2` agg_state<sum(int null)> GENERIC NOT NULL,
-> `k3` agg_state<group_concat(text null)> GENERIC NOT NULL
-> ) ENGINE=OLAP
-> AGGREGATE KEY(`k1`)
-> DISTRIBUTED BY HASH(`k1`) BUCKETS 3
-> PROPERTIES (
-> "replication_allocation" = "tag.location.default: 1"
-> );
ERROR 1105 (HY000): errCode = 2, detailMessage = Syntax error in line 3:
`k2` agg_state<sum(int null)> GENERIC NOT NULL,
^
Encountered: SUM
Expected: SUM is keyword, maybe `SUM`
```
